I bet my I.Q. is insanely higher than yours ;) lol
What if your greatest mistake is your greatest happiness?
Will you stand to correct it or just hope that you won’t live to regret it?
Will you stand to correct it or just hope that you won’t live to regret it?
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HOW DO YOU HEAL A BROKEN HEART?
There are tons of possibilities of course. Choice is always something you’ll have, whether you opt to go for the simple way, the hard way or…. the not-so-simple-not-so-hard-way.
I feel like writing now so let’s start with the first one.
1. THE HARD WAY
OK. If you are the masochistic type and you like hurting yourself, then this is the best way to go. Hahaha. (I’m just playin’ yah). We can’t help it, there will always be people who believe grieving for someone/something lost will help you move on. These are the ones who had suicidal attempts but sadly, remained alive. It sounds kinda’ violent… but hey, I believe if you remain standing after almost killing yourself, you’ll be the most accomplished in terms of moving forward. A funny scenario is, if they have friends who are going through hearthaches, expect this advice: “Cry, Bleed it out until it runs dry”.
2. THE-NOT-SO-SIMPLE-NOT-SO-HARD-WAY
If you are the melo-dramatic type who likes doing things the usual way, then you fit in to this category. More like Rihanna, you like the way it hurts (though you won’t admit). You will undergo several steps to achieve your goal. First is Anger. You’ll change you’re status on Facebook and post angry and half-meant quotes. This will go along for a few weeks ‘till you gain your friends’ sympathy, which is the next step.
Speaking of friends , they will play a vital role in helping you accept reality. You’ll have endless phone and text conversations about how you were betrayed, how you want your ex to suffer. Finally, Acceptance. This will eventually end up with you being scared of a relationship and will take you years to move on to the next.
A funny scenario is, if they have friends who are going through heartaches, expect this advice: “Keep yourself busy. Go to the mall and entertain yourself. Be with friends. Do away from alone-moments. You won’t notice, you’re already moved on.”
3. THE SIMPLE WAY
These are the ones who replace their exes in a matter of days just so they can move on. They don’t care if people think their partner is a rebound. They enjoy themselves to death. Works hard, Parties harder. They go for HookUps. They pretend like everything is ok. They’ll do everything just to catch some zzzzz’s. They weep when they are alone; they cry themselves to sleep.
Eventually, things will go well with the new partner but when he/she meets the ex, his/her heart crashes. This is the easy type of moving on but not so effective.
A funny scenario is, if they have friends who are going through heartaches, expect this advice: “The best way to get over an ex is to find someone new. Find someone better and hotter then you’ll be merrier. Pakkkk!”
—- I myself had to choose at some point in my life. My choice? Secret. Haha.
Boys Like Girls feat. Taylor Swift —- My L.S.S.
You must… and I say YOU must hear this song. Pretty catchy…
TWO IS BETTER THAN ONE
I remember what you wore on the first day
You came into my life and I thought
“Hey, you know, this could be something”
‘Cause everything you do and words you say
You know that it all takes my breath away
And now I’m left with nothing
So maybe it’s true
That I can’t live without you
Maybe two is better than one
There’s so much time
To figure out the rest of my life
And you’ve already got me coming undone
And I’m thinking two is better than one
I remember every look upon your face
The way you roll your eyes
The way you taste
You make it hard for breathing
‘Cause when I close my eyes and drift away
I think of you and everything’s okay
I’m finally now believing
That maybe it’s true
That I can’t live without you
Maybe two is better than one
There’s so much time
To figure out the rest of my life
And you’ve already got me coming undone
And I’m thinking two is better than one
Yeah, yeah
I remember what you wore on the first day
You came into my life and I thought, “Hey,”
maybe it’s true
That I can’t live without you
Maybe two is better than one
There’s so much time
To figure out the rest of my life
And you’ve already got me coming undone
And I’m thinking
I can’t live without you
‘Cause, baby, two is better than one
There’s so much time
To figure out the rest of my life
But I’ll figure it out
When all is said and done
Two is better than one
Two is better than one
LOOKING FOR HAPPINESS???
There was this one guy who asked me in an inuman session, “How do I find Happiness? Do I just wait for it or should I go searching?” I said I didn’t know.
Here’s the thread: The Guy is my Friend’s Friend… so let’s call him acquaintance. (Labo?)
Acquaintance: “But you seem so happy?”
Me: Oh, do I?
Acquaintance: “Yeah, with your work, family, friends and lovelife”
Me: Oh, how do you know?
Acquaintance: Well I just think so… I’m not drunk or what, I’m just tired of my life
Me: Ah ok. But if you ask me, I think happiness lies in CONTENTMENT. Instead of asking yourself where to find happiness, find contentment. It is damn easier to look for. You seriously don’t want to search for a pin in a haystack. So, Live life without complications. Never expect. Make the most out of everything. Eat, Sleep, Work as much as you want. Go on romantic dates. Don’t stop. A famous philosopher once said, “It doesn’t matter how slowly you go so long as you don’t stop”. Eventually, you’ll come to a point where you could not ask for more. Then there is contentment. Then there is Happiness.
Acquaintance: “Isn’t that hard to do?”
Me: That’s another reason. You’re too scared to act. Too scared of what might happen. Life will not lay everything for you on a silver platter. Only your mom does that.
Acquaintance: “Wouldn’t that make my life kind of wayward”
Me: Oh, what the hell?!? Do you know someone who’s perfectly normal. C’mon, give me a break. Those people you see that are happy now, had their fair share of lopsidedness.
Acquaintance: “How come you’re so smart and I’m not?”
Me: That my friend is a different issue. LoL.
